read fr a fren's blog...

"I think all our problems, hurt, insecurties and pain come from the inability to recognise who we really are and where we stand and belong.

The process of becoming isn't easy, and it probably isn't meant to be charted.

But for now I struggle to remember who I am and what I have to do.I struggle mostly with letting go of what isn't mine anymore, of what isn't congruenent to my identity.There's only so much I can take, so I should stop taking more. "